I had surgery last week, and was told that I cannot have sex for 6 weeks. For any who know me, six weeks of no sex might as well be an eternity. On top of that, Phoenix and I have had a particularly stressful month.
So…. I planned a scene. I rigged a set up where I had his nipples clamped, and ran a rope through the clamps, around his cock and balls, and then up through the cuffs around his wrists. This was new for us, and it turned out quite well. We also had some heavy impact play, and when the scene was over, he was allowed to cum.
It’s interesting that even though no penetrative sex occurred, we both felt much better after. It’s as if we both needed to work out our tension. It’s nice when needs match so well, like pieces of a puzzle.